Is It How It Feels When We are Getting Older?
It was a 2.5 hours conversation between two friends, to feed our needs of human connection, even when the physical distance separated us. Because apart from whatever we are currently doing and trying, in the end, all of us are just humanbeings living in the same history, living in a pandemic and try to keep alive in this kind of survival mode. I found there is always something worth to share, so I wrote this. The call was opened with a very common and predictable question; " how's life ?" But the process to answer was all about reflection into other reflections. Not necessarily to only answer the question itself, but more into re-affirming our current emotion, " am I okay? what do I feel? " then the conversation developed, unstructured still, yet well covered important elements of life. In the midst of debating between " sentil " and " grendel " for the Javaness terminology of locking the doors, we talked about adult life. When we become mor...